vangirl: (Van: Fascinating)
...well my plan didn't work and I feel asleep curled up on the edge of the bed with my cat. But I didn't sleep in more than I usually do so. Was not too bad of a failure.

Anyway~ A certain someone on my LJ flist linked to sex is not the enemy, which is a sex-positive blog with images of people having sex and enjoying it. Or just being naked and enjoying it. Or just kissing and enjoying. Or hell, just holding hands and enjoying it. There's a wide representation of various sexualities and gender identities as well, with some excellent gender-fucking to boot. (semi-related tidbit: I personally find gender-fucking hot but I feel as thought I'm Missing The Point with that at times.)

Not safe for work, obviously, but it's still a safe place to look for porn that isn't built off of male pleasure and the objectification of women. (Which you know, objectification could be hot, if there was more porn where it was presented as a kink and not as "this is how sex works.")

I said this before, and I'll say it again: Porn doesn't have to be a "bad" thing that you need to protect children (and women) from. There just needs to be more porn that shows the participants as normal, equal human beings that both enjoy the sex.


...That said, I'll probably go back to writing terribly unhealthy relationships. Do as I say, not as I do. /o\
vangirl: (Legretta/Tear: omg luv u)
Time for happy things!

[community profile] newgameplus is a game-centric fandom exchange! One where you can sign up with an Open ID if you don't have a DreamWidth account. My gaming fandoms are...kinda limited, I discovered.

Male Submission Art (NWS AT ALL) is a site with some lovely pictures of submissive men. I do believe that porn can be art and this site has a lot of examples that prove that, I feel. Porn is one of those genres where it's assumed that 'quality doesn't matter' so, a lot of porn that comes out is made with naked bodies and ~sexy~ imagery with little attempt to make the images, you know, appealing. I find uh, male genitalia to be a big turn off, but I can still appreciate a great deal of the photos here as art, even if they're not something I personally find to be 'hot.' I also like how the person writing the descriptions interprets a lot of these images. It's really cool to see someone enjoy porn, and analyze it that way.
(I can't link to it directly but on page three there's a seemingly vanilla image of mid-age woman/man couple, where the woman seems to be control and it's...very lovely. Definitely my favorite out of what I've seen.)

And I feel like I should have more but um, I wanted to share these two mainly. :B


Since getting my paid account here, I keep going to my network page and getting confused as to how I suddenly got to know all these people that I...never spoken with. And I've been doing this consistently.

It takes a few attempts before I learn things, apparently.

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